Chemistry feels convincing because it activates your brain before discernment has time to engage. Dopamine heightens focus, lowers skepticism, and speeds up attachment, making misalignment easy to overlook. That’s why everything feels right at first—and confusing later. Chemistry thrives in possibility, but alignment reveals itself in reality.

You prayed. You waited. You trusted God. So why hasn’t love found you yet? Often, the issue isn’t timing—it’s alignment. Waiting was never meant to be passive. Scripture and psychology both reveal that unhealed patterns, misplaced attraction, and lack of preparation can quietly block connection. Alignment, not patience alone, changes everything.