Tired of attracting the wrong men? This blog breaks down the hidden reasons behind your dating patterns—like emotional unavailability, trauma reenactment, and confusing potential with reality. Discover why standards alone aren’t enough and what to do instead to finally experience the love you deserve.

If you’ve ever asked, “Why do I keep attracting the wrong men?”—the answer might not be in them, but in you. Specifically, in how you love yourself. In this post, Coach Vee unpacks how self-love isn’t just a personal buzzword—it’s a foundational requirement for a healthy love life. Blending psychology, scripture, and hard truth, she reveals how your self-worth sets the tone for your dating patterns, boundaries, and even who you feel worthy of entertaining. You'll learn the s

Your past isn't ruining your love life—your unhealed patterns are. Healing starts when awareness meets action.

Black love is under attack, and something must be done!

Let's examine why nice guys finish last... if they can even finish at all.

How'd we get here? The age of self-love, self-care, and treating yourself how you want to be treated. Modern women are all about the...

Be mindful giving (or not giving) boyfriends certain things before they're a husband...

Have you ever experienced gaslighting at the hands of a man? It's the absolute worst. And it's dangerous if you don't even know or...

Dating can be intimidating and scary for some. Often it's because people deem themselves as being rusty or out of the loop, unaware how...

Listen. These dating streets can be grea-sy, you hear me? Now, do I believe they have to be? No! I think when you get to a certain level...

Yes, you read that right. It sounds insane, I already know. The thing is, it's not uncommon. At all. Take a journey with me, using your...

I pay attention to single women when they speak. I hear the things they say, and read the things they write. Many believe that they have,...

Silent. Passive. Calm. Reserved. Just a few words used to describe an introvert. There are a wide variety of people that fit this...

What I've learned as a coach is that there is often "one" reason why many women are still single...

Surely this has happened to you before. Things were seemingly going well with a dude. Then all of a sudden, your new love interest starts...

Here's the key: think of your ideal guy, the kind of man you desire. The man that's perfect for you and you're perfect for him.

Many women believe they're ready to date, but only because they've told themselves they are. They're sick of being single. They want...

The divorce is settled and you're ready to date. You've spent time processing everything, and now you're interested in meeting someone...

I often warn ladies of the dangers of dating without discernment. You can easily find yourself attached to a counterfeit in this season...