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The Beauty of Healthy Love: Why It’s Worth Doing the Work For
You’ve heard it a thousand times: “I just want love.” Perhaps you’ve even stated it. But the reality you’re living tells another story. You’ve been in relationships that left you drained, anxious, second-guessing yourself. You’ve sat across from a man you thought was “the one” only to realize the connection felt good in the moment but lacked the peace, the foundation, the clarity you longed for. Here’s the truth: healthy, God-honoring love is possible . And, not only possible

Victoria Baxter
Oct 309 min read


Why Transformation Is the Missing Ingredient in Your Love Life
Transformation—not just prayer—is the real key to lasting love. Learn why God can’t bless what you refuse to release, and how relationship readiness helps you break patterns, heal deeply, and align for the love you’ve been praying for.

Victoria Baxter
Oct 239 min read


Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Men (And What to Do Instead)
Tired of attracting the wrong men? This blog breaks down the hidden reasons behind your dating patterns—like emotional unavailability, trauma reenactment, and confusing potential with reality. Discover why standards alone aren’t enough and what to do instead to finally experience the love you deserve.

Victoria Baxter
Jul 279 min read


How Self-Love Impacts the Way You Date (and Who You Date)
If you’ve ever asked, “Why do I keep attracting the wrong men?”—the answer might not be in them, but in you. Specifically, in how you love yourself.
In this post, Coach Vee unpacks how self-love isn’t just a personal buzzword—it’s a foundational requirement for a healthy love life. Blending psychology, scripture, and hard truth, she reveals how your self-worth sets the tone for your dating patterns, boundaries, and even who you feel worthy of entertaining. You'll learn the s

Victoria Baxter
Jun 184 min read


Is Your Attachment Style Sabotaging Your Love Life? Understanding the Link Between Trauma, Dating Patterns, and Emotional Safety
Your past isn't ruining your love life—your unhealed patterns are. Healing starts when awareness meets action.

Victoria Baxter
Apr 96 min read


The Myth of Childhood Resilience: How Childhood Trauma Shapes Adulthood
Children don’t just bounce back—trauma shapes them. Healing your past is key to breaking cycles and creating a healthier future.

Victoria Baxter
Mar 44 min read


The War on Black Love: Healing Through Understanding, Grace, and Realignment
Black love is under attack, and something must be done!

Victoria Baxter
Oct 2, 20245 min read


Dating Yourself
How'd we get here? The age of self-love, self-care, and treating yourself how you want to be treated. Modern women are all about the...

Victoria Baxter
Apr 11, 20235 min read


Avoiding Mr. Right
Yes, you read that right. It sounds insane, I already know. The thing is, it's not uncommon. At all. Take a journey with me, using your...

Victoria Baxter
Apr 18, 20204 min read


I'm sick of being single!
Something I've heard time and time again. There are endless posts on social media, emails I receive, and inbox messages from single women...

Victoria Baxter
Jun 22, 20193 min read


Fixing a bad attitude
You can't have a bad attitude and be genuinely kind at the same time. Admit your faults and strive to be better.

Victoria Baxter
Jun 11, 20193 min read


How to lose a man...
There are ways to get a man, but one thing for sure is that there are ways to lose a man. Many women have gone from relationship to...

Victoria Baxter
May 11, 20193 min read


Battling Loneliness
Loneliness. Something that affects many people. Singles get frustrated because they have no one to share life with. Whether it's lack of...

Victoria Baxter
Mar 13, 20193 min read
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