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The Beauty of Healthy Love: Why It’s Worth Doing the Work For
You’ve heard it a thousand times: “I just want love.” Perhaps you’ve even stated it. But the reality you’re living tells another story. You’ve been in relationships that left you drained, anxious, second-guessing yourself. You’ve sat across from a man you thought was “the one” only to realize the connection felt good in the moment but lacked the peace, the foundation, the clarity you longed for. Here’s the truth: healthy, God-honoring love is possible . And, not only possible

Victoria Baxter
Oct 309 min read


Why Transformation Is the Missing Ingredient in Your Love Life
Transformation—not just prayer—is the real key to lasting love. Learn why God can’t bless what you refuse to release, and how relationship readiness helps you break patterns, heal deeply, and align for the love you’ve been praying for.

Victoria Baxter
Oct 239 min read


Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Men (And What to Do Instead)
Tired of attracting the wrong men? This blog breaks down the hidden reasons behind your dating patterns—like emotional unavailability, trauma reenactment, and confusing potential with reality. Discover why standards alone aren’t enough and what to do instead to finally experience the love you deserve.

Victoria Baxter
Jul 279 min read


How Self-Love Impacts the Way You Date (and Who You Date)
If you’ve ever asked, “Why do I keep attracting the wrong men?”—the answer might not be in them, but in you. Specifically, in how you love yourself.
In this post, Coach Vee unpacks how self-love isn’t just a personal buzzword—it’s a foundational requirement for a healthy love life. Blending psychology, scripture, and hard truth, she reveals how your self-worth sets the tone for your dating patterns, boundaries, and even who you feel worthy of entertaining. You'll learn the s

Victoria Baxter
Jun 184 min read


Is Your Attachment Style Sabotaging Your Love Life? Understanding the Link Between Trauma, Dating Patterns, and Emotional Safety
Your past isn't ruining your love life—your unhealed patterns are. Healing starts when awareness meets action.

Victoria Baxter
Apr 96 min read


The Myth of Childhood Resilience: How Childhood Trauma Shapes Adulthood
Children don’t just bounce back—trauma shapes them. Healing your past is key to breaking cycles and creating a healthier future.

Victoria Baxter
Mar 44 min read


How to Love a Man Without Losing Yourself
Learn how to love deeply without losing yourself. Embrace balance, identity, and purpose in healthy, godly relationships.

Victoria Baxter
Jan 135 min read


The War on Black Love: Healing Through Understanding, Grace, and Realignment
Black love is under attack, and something must be done!

Victoria Baxter
Oct 2, 20245 min read


Do Nice Guys always Finish Last?
Let's examine why nice guys finish last... if they can even finish at all.

Victoria Baxter
Nov 29, 20239 min read


Dating Yourself
How'd we get here? The age of self-love, self-care, and treating yourself how you want to be treated. Modern women are all about the...

Victoria Baxter
Apr 11, 20235 min read


What Benefits do Boyfriends Get?
Be mindful giving (or not giving) boyfriends certain things before they're a husband...

Victoria Baxter
Oct 4, 20227 min read


Beware of GASLIGHTERS!
Have you ever experienced gaslighting at the hands of a man? It's the absolute worst. And it's dangerous if you don't even know or...

Victoria Baxter
Jul 2, 20205 min read


Date Confidently
Dating can be intimidating and scary for some. Often it's because people deem themselves as being rusty or out of the loop, unaware how...

Victoria Baxter
Jun 11, 20204 min read


How to Spot a Playa
Listen. These dating streets can be grea-sy, you hear me? Now, do I believe they have to be? No! I think when you get to a certain level...

Victoria Baxter
Apr 30, 20206 min read


Avoiding Mr. Right
Yes, you read that right. It sounds insane, I already know. The thing is, it's not uncommon. At all. Take a journey with me, using your...

Victoria Baxter
Apr 18, 20204 min read


Narcissist or nah?
I pay attention to single women when they speak. I hear the things they say, and read the things they write. Many believe that they have,...

Victoria Baxter
Apr 3, 20204 min read


Dating while Introverted...
Silent. Passive. Calm. Reserved. Just a few words used to describe an introvert. There are a wide variety of people that fit this...

Victoria Baxter
Mar 20, 20203 min read


"The One" reason you might still be Single..
What I've learned as a coach is that there is often "one" reason why many women are still single...

Victoria Baxter
Feb 7, 20206 min read


He left but he's not God
Nothing like being abandoned. We roll our eyes when we see another social media post or vlog when someone is telling people to heal from...

Victoria Baxter
Dec 20, 20194 min read


Why men lose interest...
Surely this has happened to you before. Things were seemingly going well with a dude. Then all of a sudden, your new love interest starts...

Victoria Baxter
Nov 26, 20195 min read
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