Chemistry feels convincing because it activates your brain before discernment has time to engage. Dopamine heightens focus, lowers skepticism, and speeds up attachment, making misalignment easy to overlook. That’s why everything feels right at first—and confusing later. Chemistry thrives in possibility, but alignment reveals itself in reality.

You don’t keep repeating the same relationship story because you’re unlucky, cursed, or missing God. You repeat it because your heart keeps choosing what feels familiar—not what’s aligned. Until the emotional patterns beneath your choices are understood and healed, the outcome will change faces but not endings. Clarity must come before change.