You don’t keep repeating the same relationship story because you’re unlucky, cursed, or missing God. You repeat it because your heart keeps choosing what feels familiar—not what’s aligned. Until the emotional patterns beneath your choices are understood and healed, the outcome will change faces but not endings. Clarity must come before change.

You prayed. You waited. You trusted God. So why hasn’t love found you yet? Often, the issue isn’t timing—it’s alignment. Waiting was never meant to be passive. Scripture and psychology both reveal that unhealed patterns, misplaced attraction, and lack of preparation can quietly block connection. Alignment, not patience alone, changes everything.

Dating feels draining when you’re just participating, not leading. Fatigue comes from misalignment — reacting to men, apps, and chaos instead of dating with vision and boundaries. Your love life transforms when you align with who God called you to be and stop entertaining what isn’t aligned with your purpose.

Tired of attracting the wrong men? This blog breaks down the hidden reasons behind your dating patterns—like emotional unavailability, trauma reenactment, and confusing potential with reality. Discover why standards alone aren’t enough and what to do instead to finally experience the love you deserve.